Someone may say “No, my limit is the sky and nothing can stop me”, another one may say ‘Yes . I am not able to do many things , it is so hard or unreachable , not understandable “, from what side are you?

I think both of the sides are not able to understand their human capabilities well, and in the same time both side should believe that we are creature, so we will never be perfect , the perfection is only for Allah the creator.

As a human you can only see from your eyes, and physically your seen is limited , and when you feel, you feel only from you heart not from others, you will never feel what others feel. the 1st side thinks that if he wants something he can get it by any cost, he plans works works and works expects many things and builds based on his expectations but at the end he may fail !!! why, why, what happens here??? humans reactions can not be expected, once you are ahead of something based on another human, DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING, do not build dreams, do not think about next step, you may cause a disaster because of these expectations , so here your vision is limited and you can not expect what others can react …..

But, do I surrender ? do I stop my ambitious because of human reactions ? we are very strong creature, thanks god for this - humans reactions are not always right , so do you surrender in front of something wrong!???!!!! On another hand, do you become an evil to correct others wrong ideas, behaviors or reactions ???!! So … What to do if you tried 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 … 10 times and it failed?

Maybe it is an old idea but the answer for all questions above is “Patience“, but in the same time you need to be smart, do not loose the hope, think positively and do not let it become a weak point in your life but turn it to strong point, if you did all the things you are able to do then be satisfied and be happy :)

The question is how “Patience” can be a solution or a key to our success? as I said before; our visions are limited and we can not see everything, the only one who knows everything and can help you is Allah, and Allah may see that you are not ready to get something now but you can get it in the future, and sometimes Allah may see that you are not qualified to get something and someone else need to get it rather than you, and sometimes your faults and the wrong things you did in the past are the reason. This is fair and you need to accept this becauase it is right. so what you need to do is to think about all these things and in the same time be smart and positive and look to the things that are wrong in you and try to fix it and keep your relation very good with Allah, by time Allah may expands your vision to see the solution and help you to get it ;)